Man by campfire with child silhouette at dusk

Welcome to our campfires, a space where you’ll find the deeper stories that inspired the ManGood Project. Here you will find stories and discussions that carry the project’s vision, along with personal reflections drawn from years of mentoring boys and men on rivers, in classrooms, and around campfires. 

These stories are written to be shared. Parents might read one with a son, teachers may carry one into a classroom, and coaches, youth workers and community leaders may use them to begin conversations about courage, kindness, belonging and the many ways a boy can grow into a good man. They offer no set answers and deliver no lectures. Each simply places another log on the fire and invites the conversation to begin.

Pull up a log. The river may have another lesson for us yet.

Young man holding mask with restrictive phrases

The Great Unmasking

The Great Unmasking There are moments on a river when the water itself seems to grow quieter. Not because it has stopped moving, but because

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Men supporting friend by riverside campfire at sunset

Real men give a Damn

I didn’t learn this lesson in a lecture theatre or leadership seminar. I learned it beside a river after another long day on the water,

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Teen boy by campfire with child overlay

The Boy Within

The Boy Within One afternoon on a multi-day rafting trip with twenty boys from a youth detention centre, we pulled the rafts onto a gravel

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Ceremony around fire honoring pregnant woman

Two Hearts

It was that wonderful time of day; sitting around the campfire after a long day on the river. Our 20 young offenders, six river guides

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Men laughing by campfire and in bar

Which laugh will you choose

Over years of guiding white-water rafting trips through the wild mountain rivers of southern Oregon, I have witnessed moments that still surge through my memory

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