
Who makes the Rules
A story about two eight-year-olds, a treehouse and some rules that needed questioning. Jack and Molly were eight years old and had spent most of
Awakening the good man patiently waiting inside every boy
Welcome to our campfires, a space where you’ll find the deeper stories that inspired the ManGood Project. Here you will find stories and discussions that carry the project’s vision, along with personal reflections drawn from years of mentoring boys and men on rivers, in classrooms, and around campfires.
These stories are written to be shared. Parents might read one with a son, teachers may carry one into a classroom, and coaches, youth workers and community leaders may use them to begin conversations about courage, kindness, belonging and the many ways a boy can grow into a good man. They offer no set answers and deliver no lectures. Each simply places another log on the fire and invites the conversation to begin.
Pull up a log. The river may have another lesson for us yet.

A story about two eight-year-olds, a treehouse and some rules that needed questioning. Jack and Molly were eight years old and had spent most of

A story about a magpie, a few unkind words and the courage to care. The old magpie had been visiting the school-yard for as long

It was the late 1960s, I was in my early twenties and the boat captain at the Jan Juc Surf Life Saving Club on Victoria’s

The river had been doing most of the talking that afternoon, rushing around great grey boulders and carrying us deeper into the forest, where the

We talk about the manosphere as though it were some troublesome new arrival, born in the darker corners of the internet and carried into boys’

Back in the 1980s, while working as a ski instructor in Australia, my then-wife and I built a twenty-bed ski lodge in the Snowy Mountains

The evening before, as darkness settled into the canyon and our campfire burned down to that deep red glow signalling it was time for the

By the seventh day the river had begun doing what rivers have always done best. It was wearing away the hard edges the boys had

There is something about a river that quietly rearranges people. Perhaps it is the steady rhythm of the paddles or the absence of clocks, phones