Man by campfire with child silhouette at dusk

Welcome to our campfires, a space where you’ll find the deeper stories that inspired the ManGood Project. Here you will find stories and discussions that carry the project’s vision, along with personal reflections drawn from years of mentoring boys and men on rivers, in classrooms, and around campfires. 

These stories are written to be shared. Parents might read one with a son, teachers may carry one into a classroom, and coaches, youth workers and community leaders may use them to begin conversations about courage, kindness, belonging and the many ways a boy can grow into a good man. They offer no set answers and deliver no lectures. Each simply places another log on the fire and invites the conversation to begin.

Pull up a log. The river may have another lesson for us yet.

Two children sit in treehouse beside welcome sign.

Who makes the Rules

A story about two eight-year-olds, a treehouse and some rules that needed questioning. Jack and Molly were eight years old and had spent most of

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Man in swim briefs talks with bikers on beach

The Broken Bottle

It was the late 1960s, I was in my early twenties and the boat captain at the Jan Juc Surf Life Saving Club on Victoria’s

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Man Good Whitewater Rafting Trip

We were one boy short

By the seventh day the river had begun doing what rivers have always done best. It was wearing away the hard edges the boys had

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Father and son by riverside campfire at sunset

The Bravest Words

There is something about a river that quietly rearranges people. Perhaps it is the steady rhythm of the paddles or the absence of clocks, phones

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